It’s Depends on the person, the way I see it. Calling a guy “insecure” cause he’s upset you pull out a toy after sex, would be like a guy pulling out a pocket pussy after sex because it feels nicer and is “Tighter” than you.
A dick is never going to hit the clit a way a vibrator can, even
a tongue can’t. Such things can make even the most confident person insecure
because of what mentioned above. You need to take that into account if you’re
with someone, if it’s just a fling….or you’re just casually dating then do you.
But if you’re in a relationship, and you need to pull out a toy after every
time, that guy is 100% going to feel a little less manly. So to everyone
calling guys insecure who are women or the men saying it because…they’re just
sex gods in their minds, just consider
the other side of things and put yourself in the other role, how it might feel
if a guy told you he needs to fuck a toy after sex cause you’re just loose and
don’t feel very good down below.
I’ve been with women where I was so drunk I just couldn’t get
off, and it really offended them, they felt insecure after and that they didn’t
do a good job or they did something wrong. I’m sure many women have been in
similar situations where your partner not getting off makes you feel like shit.
So if that’s happened to you and you remember how you felt, then imagine how he
feels too when you don’t get off and suddenly pulling out a toy to fix the
situation is not going to fix the situation.
Works both ways.
Now I’ve never had any complaints that I’ve heard anyways about
my performance when I was able to finish. And I’ve been in a couple
relationships that had toys involved, personally I find toys boring but for the
specific women in question I didn’t mind to spice things up. But communication
was a key part in those relationships that needs to be addressed. Otherwise I
guess enjoy the single tinder life, if that’s what you enjoy power to you but
if you want companionship and an actual partner, if he’s not ok with it, it’s
called sacrifices. All relationships have them, and if the sex is so damn bad
that you’re miserable without your toy, then find someone else or stay single
and date your toys.
But you need to accept the fact that a relationship with someone is never going to meet the same level of stimulation that a vibrator is going to, and expecting it to is childish and ignorant and expecting him or even her, to be alright with you busting out a toy after without discussing it first and accepting it? Well
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